KANSAS CITY, Mo. -- Today is a summer day for thousands of people across the metro. It was also a National Day of Remembrance for murder victims. But many families will also tell you it's a special day -- one to honor those that lost.
Six and a half years ago Chris Bartholomew was shot and killed near the intersection of 39th and Broadway. He had come to pick up friends from Westport. His death devastated his mother, but she's been able to get through the past few years because of other families who have experienced a similar loss.
"My life stopped that day," Misty Kirwan, mother, said. "Life as I knew it stopped that day. The National Day of Remembrance helps other people realize we're still here."
Kirwan tries to stay strong, but nearly seven years after her son was killed she still has bad days.
"There are some days when I don't want to get out of bed, and I can call one of my friends that have been through this," she said. "I just talk or cry and they really understand."
One of the people she calls is Maria Martinez. Her brother Sam Mandacina was shot and killed in 2011. Sam managed a Northland convenience store. He offered to work a Sunday night shift for one of his employees. About 7 o'clock that night a 16-year-old walked in and shot Sam several times killing him and changing his family's life forever.
"You instantly become so close to them because this tragic incident builds a special bond, and without them I don't know where I'd be," Martinez said.
Both women and their families are surviving one day at a time thanks to each other. Both think about their loved ones daily especially on this National Day of Remembrance for murder victims.